Dearest Father,
I was only five years old when you transitioned on Christmas morning, leaving a void that seemed impossible to fill. Even at that young age, I felt the weight of your absence as our family faced a new reality. For my mother, siblings, and me, it felt like the end of the world as we knew it. You were our family’s strength and guiding light, the love of my mother’s life, and the anchor for us all.
But looking back, I see the profound gift you gave us—a gift wrapped in the mystery of your transition.
A Family’s Strength Through Loss
At five years old, I couldn’t fully grasp the magnitude of what we were experiencing. My teenage siblings and my mother carried the unimaginable burden of navigating life without you. Yet, in their grief, they came together. That Christmas, though shadowed by sorrow, was filled with resilience. They found the courage to celebrate, to keep our family moving forward, and to hold onto each other.
Their strength taught me something invaluable: love doesn’t end with loss. Instead, it transforms.
A Legacy of New Beginnings
Your transition set into motion events that shaped our family in beautiful and unexpected ways. We didn’t move to the home you and mother had planned, which led to my sister meeting her soulmate. Their love story blossomed into over 50 years of marriage, five children, and grandchildren—all gifts that stem from your decision to let go.
Each of us found our paths, creating lives enriched by the strength and courage you inspired.
Guidance Beyond the Physical World
Throughout my life, I’ve felt your presence during pivotal moments. From my near-death experiences to everyday challenges, I know you’ve been with me, guiding and supporting me. Your love transcends the physical realm, reminding me that connections of the heart are eternal.
A Continuing Journey
In recent years, I’ve said goodbye to my siblings as they transitioned into their continuums of life. Each played a vital role in shaping who I am today. My sister, who “mothered” me in her way, and my brother, who mentored me, left behind legacies of love and wisdom. Even now, I feel their presence and guidance, just as I do yours.
Life in the Spirit of Christmas
Your choice to transition on Christmas Day—the day symbolizing the birth of Christ Consciousness—holds deep meaning. It’s a reminder that life is not about endings but about continuous beginnings. Your transition taught me that each day is an opportunity for rebirth, a chance to live fully and embrace the divine within.
This lesson continues to inspire me as I reflect on our family’s journey. Through love, connection, and gratitude, we honor the lives of those who have gone before us.
Gratitude for the Gifts of Life
As I step into 2025, I carry the wisdom, love, and lessons from my family. I am the last of our core family here on Earth, but I know I am never truly alone. My parents and siblings remain with me in spirit, watching over me and guiding me as I continue to grow and create new experiences.
Life, with all its imperfections, is perfect in its design. It’s in the challenges, the disagreements, and the joys that we find our strength and purpose.
A Christmas Message for Us All
Christmas is a time to reflect on where we’ve been, what we’ve learned, and how we can grow. It’s an opportunity to celebrate the connections that shape our lives and the blessings that surround us.
This holiday season, commit to loving yourself and your life unconditionally. See the blessings in your experiences and share your gifts with others. Through the lens of Christ’s Consciousness, we can embrace life as a journey of continuous creation, connection, and renewal.
Sherryism: “Life is a continuous continuum of experiences to embrace, honor, and celebrate.”